Revolving Door: torrid tales of living, loving, & fucking in nyc

I’ve always had a healthy preoccupation with the opposite sex, or maybe a ravenous obsession. That’s neither here nor there, but now on the dawn of new single-hood I am ready for what this city has to offer. I am here to share dating tips, love affairs, and other tantalizing details of being single in the city.  

Here’s just a random moment in my life so everyone can get a glimpse of how my friends and I think & interact:

 -ME: It’s so beautiful out! Should we run outside or gym?

-BFF: Hmmmm idk girl I think this is when the hotties come out at the gym

…thinking…

-BFF: Or is that a bad reason to want to go to the gym?

-ME: That is nevaaaaaaaa a bad reason !

…LOL…

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These past several weeks I’ve been meeting pretty interesting characters during random moments of extreme fun in the city. It’s really true that boys just fall into your lap when you least expect it. I love unexpected connection.

Anwho…

Today’s pondering:

If a week has expired and for whatever reason (conflicting schedules, distance, etc.) you and new boy can’t meet up do you let it go?

I guess this is when you ask yourself:

- what do you want from this possible new situation: fling or more?

- was he even THAT attractive

-maybe the conflicting schedules is a sign from the universe that it ’ meant to be?