25Returning in a timely fashion, ready to discuss lust & passion.
Today’s Topics: Preparation & The Window of Opportunity
Okay so being prepared is advantageous in any situation, however, for a single woman in her prime, it is an imperative! More often than not my carefree, unassuming manner leaves me very unprepared for incredible adventures.
No RD you cant sleep over Mr. Awesome’s because you didn’t pack any make up or big sunglasses for the morning.
No RD he can’t pleasure your breasts orally because you forgot to shave your armpits.
No RD, no cunnalingis for you because you’ve been neglecting your landscaping responsibilities.
In addition to missing out on golden, euphoric opportunities you are not maximizing full confidence potential. This is because you are distracted by all the things you should have done and failed to do, so you do not feel 100%. Not feeling 100% makes you less witty, and less articulate when hotties are trying to engage you with simple banter.
If you want to succeed in life you need to be prepared at all times. Full-face make-up at the grocery store. Dress to the nines at the gym. You never know who you will meet and where the day will take you.
For instance last Monday, a disarmingly charming ginger sparked conversation at the front desk with my friend and I. Fast forward to the end of my shift and we were all getting ready to hit the town! With a continued night of laughter, fun, storytelling, and social lubricants we all found ourselves back in his room…and lets just say yadda, yadda, yadda, we could/ should have been more prepared (in order to maximize fun).
Now onto the the window of opportunity. In my opinion when first fun is had, and connections are shared & expressed you have 5 days to explore what was shared otherwise the window closes. Maybe there will be hang-outs intermittently, however if you don’t strike that iron while it is hot during that 5-7 day window something substantial will not be established.
So luckily for us 2 days after the spontaneous outing, the red-headed traveler found his way back to our little town for round 2 of fun and good times.
On the flip side, weeks prior, a physical interaction was exchanged in an unexpected place, on an unexpected visit to a co-worker. And when follow-up meetings weren’t happening we resigned ourselves to the fact that ‘twasn’t meant to be. Five days had expired and it’s not like we don’t live in the same area or work right next to each other! So that’s a definite indication that it was a one time-heat of the moment, moment. The worst part about it is that is was a measly 2nd base tease! If it was a good hearty fuck I think I would feel more satisfied or least less curious about this coworker.
